Thriving the Future – SkillsOverStuff

#SkillsOverStuff

How to develop skills rather than just buy more stuff

Have you heard the prepper phrase – “Two is One, and One is None”?

The idea is to have redundancy and a backup because if your main piece of stuff (a tool, a power generator, etc.) breaks then you are not without.

It is better to develop the skills to bridge that gap, rather than filling it with stuff.

You have a chainsaw. How often do you use it? Do you know how to sharpen the chain? Have you practiced this skill?

People buy a generator and put it in the garage and do not really use it until there is a storm. Then they are standing in the rain trying to figure out the generator or trying to get it to start, when they have not run it in over a year.

True story: I bought a generator, was ready to store it, and then I saw the instructions that you should run it for a few hours before putting a load on it. I tried to start it and the new generator wouldn’t start and it was leaking fuel from the carburetor. It was defective and it took months to get replaced. It was a good thing that I didn’t just put it in the garage without testing it first.

You have multiple forms of fire-starters in your bug out bag (BOB). Have you practiced using those fire-starters? I have dryer lint to use as kindling. After being in my BOB for a year, the dryer lint was not very easy to light.

Buy Stuff that will stand the test of time and use under tough conditions.

Some people take “Two is One, and One is None” seriously, and buy multiple things, but it is all cheap stuff.

Buy the best thing that you can afford, within reason.

Learn how to maintain your stuff

You have a shovel or an axe. Do you seal the wood handle? With older tools you may have to periodically coat the handle with linseed oil.

One things seems for sure – tough times are coming. Things may not be as easy to get as they once were. You may have to learn new skills to replace parts that were once easy to get (like a broken axe handle). Learn the skills to maintain your stuff. Instead of buying two axes, perhaps buy one nice axes and an extra wooden handle.


How to Develop Skills


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